Tuesday, August 14, 2018

Apni Samajh se Mehkaey Veyhaik Jewan

    Hasband wife k Rishte k bich waecharik matbhed bad jana un k alghaow ki waja ban jata h, ease m family ko totne se bachane k ley kiya kare, or kiya nhi, y janna bhehad zaroori h!
        Kudrat n Admi ki aadat shakki wali banaya h, jab ki sab Admi ease nhi hote, ease m kab, kis time galat fhemi hasband wife ki life m kadwahat bhar de, osse chen - bhen hone k kagar pr le aaey, kuch keha nhi ja sakta, agr easa hota h, to shant man se es ki baato ka pata kare, fir un ka hal nikale!
     Akhir galatfhemi hoti kiya h, or kiu hoti h? dar assal, jab eak admi dosre admi (hasband wife) ki bhawnao ko samajh nhi pata or onhe ya to sire se nakar deta h ya fir on k parti opeksha ka bhawo rakhne lagta h to vaecharik jhagda peeda hota h, kabhi kabhi to mamoli galatfhemi janlewa sabit hoti h!
        Jo 2 admi eak dosre pr jan chidhak the, eak dosre k bina reh nhi pate the wahi jara si galatfhemi ki waja se eak dosre ka chehra tak nhi dekhna chahte, aakhir easa kiu hota h?
         Easa hota h waecharik matbhed ki waja se, waecharik matbhed kaiy prkar k ho sakte h, lekin en m sab se ziyada h, ego problem, hame hamesha es baat ka kheyal rakhna chahey ki ham jes admi k samne khade h, os ki life jeene ka alag- alag tariqa ho sakta h!
    Galatfhemi eak Kahte k saman hoti h, jo rishto k bich m na kewal darar peeda krti h, balki hr time chubhan bhi peeda krti rehti h, rishto ki madhurta kadhwahat or nafrat m badalne lagti h, ease m dono k pas apni rahe alag - alag kr lene k alawa koi or chara nhi bachta, y bahut taklif de baat hoti h, jab ham eak dosre ko dhek se samajh nhi pate, to aade aata h, ego, baat badhte badhte jhagdhe tak ja phochti h, easa m eak dam khamosh or shant rehna hi uchit rehta h!
               Kio galatfhehmi hoti h 
        Shak : galatfhehmi ka sab se badi waja Shak h, kisi n thik hi keha h ki shak ka ilaj to hakim lokman k pas bhi nhi tha, jab ki duniya m har rog ka ilaj jana jata tha, kesi se baate krte dekh kr shak hota h, to kesi k sat bedhe hone bhi Shak ko janam deta h, yeha tak ki kisi anne ka name ka lena bhi Shak peda kr deta h, y uchit nhi h veyhar k sat sat shabdo ka chayan ka bhi kheyal rakhna chahey,
           Ab yeha apne partner ko yeh samjhana bahut zaroori h ki kisi se has kr baat krna ya kisi ka name lene se ko samband nhi hota, choki hasband wife dono hi eak dosre k ley hi hote h, un he baato pr Shak nhi krna chahey, or bahut thande demag se samajhna parakhna chahey,
           Parwha na krna : shak se eak baat or janam leti h dono yeh samajhne lagte h ki woh meri Parwha nhi kr rahi / ya krta h y bhi galatfhehmi peeda hoti jati h, darasal hasband wife ka rishta eak dosre k prti pyar or caring pr tika hota h, ease m vishwas ka totna anadr tak tod deta h, chuki ham samaj ka hissa h, esley logo se milne julne, baat krne ki apni mol zaroorat ko nazrandaz nhi keya ja sakta h!
           Rishto ko bana rehne k opaey : Hasband wife ko eak dosre pr vishwas rakhna chahey or kabhi kuch chipana nhi chahey amoman chipanane se eak dosre m galatfhemi ho jati h, dono ko perem se rehna chahey, sex hasband wife k bich ki mazboot kadi h, y dekha jata h sex ko lekr hasband wife k rishto m kadwahad aajati h, dono k bar bar nakaatmak veyhar se khush hal zindagi m boraey peeda ho jati h, sex life ko jaha tak ho sakhe apsi sehmati se enjoy krna chahey, es se pyar mohbat badti h, shak ki dewar bhi khatam hoti h, hasband wife ko her kam apsi sehmati se krna chahey!
          En sab baato se dhere - dhere veyhaik samband madhor hone lagte h, hasband wife dono ego se bachna chahey, rotna mana life ka eak aang h, lekin rotne ya naraz hone m aakad nhi honi chahey, koi baat dil ko achchi nhi lagi, os baat ko saf kr lena chahey, apsi veyhar dono ka bahut madhor hona chahey, life m koi mushkil aajaey to dono ko mil kr mushkil ka samna krna chahey!
              Agr galti kesi ki bhi ho apna dil saf kr kr sorry bolne ki aadad honi chahey, es se dil m gunjaesh peeda hoti h, veyhaik jewan m aanand aane lagta h, galatfhemiya hoti h or dor bhi ho jati h, onhe yaad nhi rakhna chahey, jo hova os ko bhol jana chahey, yehi hamari veyhaik jewan safalta ki taraf chale jaeyge!
        Ap ka apna Masroor Khan Ameohvi 

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